Registered Clinical Counsellor . Vancouver and Online

Relational Trauma & CPTSD Therapy in Vancouver & Online

Find freedom from patterns that trap your mind and body

Offices in East Vancouver, East Kitsilano & Downtown​

Complex trauma: more than a difficult past

Complex PTSD,  sometimes called CPTSD or relational trauma, is more than a difficult past, but it also does not require dramatic events. It develops through repeated experiences within close relationships: chronic emotional unavailability, unpredictability, neglect, control, or the absence of consistent care.

What makes this form of trauma complex is not only what happened, but what it interrupted. Early relational experiences shape the developing sense of self, how a person understands their own worth, what they come to expect from others, and what feels safe to feel or express. When those experiences are marked by fear, confusion, or the need to adapt to someone else’s emotional state, they leave impressions that do not simply fade with time.

The result is not weakness. It is a nervous system and a set of relational strategies that were shaped by particular conditions, and that continue to organize experience, often without conscious awareness.

These experiences often grow from early or repeated relational environments where safety, attunement, or emotional recognition were inconsistent or absent. Our mind and body adapt to those conditions. However those adaptations, however necessary they once were, tend to persist long after the original circumstances have changed.

What we look at together?

The focus of our work is not only what happened in the past, but on how the past continues to structure the present, in the body, in relationships, and in the sense of self.

The underlying principles of the work are the following mechanisms:

  • Recognizing the moments when old patterns activate: emotional flooding, withdrawal, hypervigilance, and understanding what they are organized around
  • Examining the internal beliefs about self and others that were formed within early relational experiences, and that now operate largely outside of awareness
  • Exploring the relational strategies: compliance, self-erasure, distance and control that once served a protective function and now limit connection
  • Creating space for aspects of self that had no room to develop within the original relational environment
  • Using the therapeutic relationship as a sustained, corrective experience — one where new ways of being known become possible

Is psychodynamic Trauma therapy in Vancouver useful for you

Is this work for you?

This work can benefit you if you experience any of the following:

Difficulties managing emotions

  • Becoming intensely upset, angry, or overwhelmed in ways that feel out of proportion to the situation
  • Swinging between emotional flooding and feeling very little at all
  • Moments of feeling detached from yourself or the world around you, as though you are watching your life from a distance, or that things do not feel quite real

Negative emotions toward yourself

  • A persistent sense of shame, worthlessness, or being fundamentally damaged — feelings that stay regardless of external circumstances or achievements
  • Difficulty knowing what you need, or feeling entitled to have needs at all
  • A shifting or unstable sense of who you are, feeling like a different person depending on who you are with or how others respond to you

Difficulties in relationships

  • Finding it hard to trust others, avoiding closeness altogether, or forming connections that are intense but difficult to sustain
  • Emotional reactions that feel older than the situation that triggered them — a tone of voice, a perceived withdrawal, a small uncertainty, and a sense that the response belongs somewhere else
  • Remaining highly attuned to the emotional states of those around you, often at the expense of your own

Give yourself the chance to connect with yourself

Discover how psychodynamic therapy in Vancouver can help you move beyond trauma.
Offices in East Vancouver and East Kitsilano

How psychodynamic therapy for trauma and cptsd unfolds

What is the therapy like?

Psychodynamic treatment is evidence-based, trauma-informed, and paced to you. It is relational and conversational, and the process itself is part of how change happens. 

Unlike traditional psychoanalysis, modern psychodynamic therapy is less focused on helping people recover repressed memories. The focus is on present experience, and the past comes into view only as much as it helps to understand the emotions, conflicts, and patterns currently at work. Emotional attunement and relational depth are cornerstones of this approach. 

In psychodynamic therapy, the therapist does not follow a fixed protocol. Instead, she provides a relational space that can receive and help process difficult emotional experience. Within that space, hidden beliefs come to the surface and aspects of the self that were suppressed or never fully developed find room to grow.

The therapeutic relationship itself becomes part of the work. It gives the client the grounding to reach their own emotional depth, and to begin testing the beliefs that have been holding them back.

The principals of the therapy I offer can be defined as:

  • Building a Foundation of Safety and Stabilization
  • Exploring your inner world, its roots, unconscious forces and beliefs shaping it
  • Finding new self expression through therapeutic relationship

 

Hi, I am Malahat

Therapy is not only a method. It is also a relationship. What you will find in our work together is a space that is:

 • thoughtful

• emotionally grounded
• attentive to complexity

I focus on your goals and plans.

Learn more about me.


Working with me

Individual sessions are $165 for 55 minutes. And Couple Sessions are 180 for 55 minutes. Most extended health plans cover sessions with a Registered Clinical Counsellor — check with your provider to confirm your coverage.  

I am specialized in depth-oriented and attachment-informed psychotherapy.

I have a Masters in Counseling Psychology and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (# 21215). I work in person in Vancouver, BC and Virtual across all BC.

Psychodynamic psychotherapy is the only type of therapy that does not frame you in a box, but attempts to understand you with all your uniqueness.

Greater steadiness, more access to yourself, and more authentic connection with others

As the underlying patterns become more visible and their origins more understood, their grip tends to loosen. Over the course of this work, many people find:

  • A greater capacity to stay regulated in difficult relational situations, rather than flooding or shutting down
  • A more stable sense of identity, that does not collapse or shift dramatically 
  • More access to their own feelings, needs, and perspective 
  • The ability to set boundaries without experiencing it as an act of aggression or a threat to connection
  • Less compulsion to manage, perform, or shrink in order to maintain belonging
  • A different relationship to the self, less governed by shame or the sense of fundamental deficiency

This is not a linear process, and it is not about arriving at an idealized state. It is about developing a more resilient, more honest relationship with yourself and with others, one that can hold complexity without breaking.

How Psychodynamic and Psychoanalytic therapy in Vancouver benefits you

What results can you expect?

Understanding where these patterns come from is the beginning of changing them.

If you’re ready to understand what’s been running beneath the surface, I’d be glad to begin that conversation with you.

Reach out to me, feel free to ask anything

Offices in East Vancouver and East Kitsilano​

How is psychodynamic therapy different from CBT?

CBT focuses on changing unhelpful thought patterns in the present. Psychodynamic therapy goes a layer deeper — exploring how past experiences and unconscious patterns and beliefs shape how you feel today, using the relationship with your therapist as part of the healing process.

While IFS offers a compassionate framework for understanding trauma through the lens of parts, psychodynamic therapy goes further by placing the therapeutic relationship itself at the center of healing, a critical advantage when the original wounds were relational.

Rather than mapping protective parts, psychodynamic work uncovers the unconscious patterns, transference dynamics, and attachment wounds that drive them, addressing not just what developed but why, and how those early relational blueprints continue to shape identity, self-worth, and connection in the present.

While EMDR is highly effective for discrete traumatic events, psychodynamic therapy offers distinct advantages for relational trauma. Because relational trauma is typically chronic and diffuse rather than tied to a single memory, psychodynamic therapy is uniquely suited to address the deeper patterns it creates, including attachment wounds, internalized beliefs about self and others, and identity-level shame.

Crucially, the therapeutic relationship itself becomes a vehicle for healing: for those whose trauma originated in relationships, experiencing a consistently safe and attuned connection with a therapist can be profoundly corrective in a way that EMDR's processing protocols don't replicate.

Psychodynamic therapy also reaches implicit and preverbal material that predates language, making it well-suited for early developmental trauma, and it can be paced flexibly for clients who haven't yet developed the emotional regulation that EMDR's processing requires.

The honest answer is that it varies, and any therapist who gives you a precise number upfront should be approached with caution. Complex and relational trauma is woven into your sense of self and attachment patterns, which means meaningful work takes time, many clients notice shifts within a few months, while deeper structural change often unfolds over one to several years.

In a psychodynamic approach, the pace is always guided by you, and how the therapy is progressing is something we assess together continuously throughout our work.